Legacy of an Adopted Child

"Once there were two women, who barely knew each other. One is in your heart forever, the other you'll call mother. Two different lives, shaped to make yours one. One became your guiding star, the other became your sun. The first gave you life, and the second taught you how to live it. The first gave you a need for love, and the second was there to give it. One gave you nationality, the other gave you a name. One gave you the seed of talent, the other gave you an aim. One gave you emotions, the other calmed your fears. One saw your first sweet smile, the other dried your tears. One gave you a family, it was what God intended for her to do. The other prayed for a child, and God led her straight to you. And now you ask me, through your tears, the age old question through the years. Heredity or environment....which are you a product of? Neither my darling...neither, just two different kinds of love". - Unknown

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Last Trip Day 2

September 29, 2009 is going to be a special day for our family. In the "adoption world" people call it Gotcha Day (which I read somewhere can stand for God Ordained This Child's Happy Adoption Day)or Forever Family Day. This morning we had breakfast, waited at the hotel while German ran some errands, went to the Vital Statistics Office where we picked up the Adoption Decree and Logan's birth certificate, ran some more errands, had lunch at our favorite German restaurant that we eat at every time we have come to Kaluga, checked out of the hotel then off to the baby home. German dropped us off for about 40 minutes and we spent some time with Logan and the caretakers before we left. They changed him into the outfit we brought (pictures to come), we took some pictures, received his feeding/sleeping schedule from the head doctor and then said our goodbyes. Then we buckled him in the car seat PRAYING that we would have a smooth ride to Moscow. He was PERFECT!!! Didn't cry once. We have also heard that a lot of children get sick in the car, so we had paper towels and plastic bags just in case - but Logan didn't get sick at all (thank goodness). He just stared out the window, looked back and forth at us, played with a toy we had brought and slept. It was wonderful. German kept saying how surprised he was that he was so good! After a 4 hour trip (we arrived at 8:30pm), we made it to German and Marina's and tried to get settled in our room. Since he hadn't eaten dinner yet, we figured we should feed him. So we gave him some mashed potatoes and a bottle. Then it was time for bed. So, we laid him down, turned off the lights and then laid down in our bed. Then we hear the CUTEST laugh - over and over again. We buried our heads in the pillow to muffle our own laughs. Then came the clapping. Then he started standing up in the crib. So, we would go over, lay him back down again, he would give us the HUGEST smile and we would go lay back down again. The laughing, clapping and sitting/standing up would start again. This went on for about 20 minutes and he finally went to sleep. So, we are trying to find things in our suitcases using the light from the laptop. We are off to take Logan to the doctor tomorrow morning and then we have the afternoon to hang out. We wanted to give you all an update and promise to post pictures tomorrow. DASVAYDANYA!!!

6 comments:

Stacey said...

CONGRATS!!!! Welcome home Logan!

Cristin & Wayne Gaskill said...

wow that is so special! sounds like you had a great night!

amy said...

CONGRATS Mama & Papa!!! Can't wait to see pictures!

the7houks said...

Am I reading this right??? You were in and out of Kaluga in a day??? How did you get the passport done so fast?? I thought we were fast! At least they are making that part of it faster and easier. Have fun in Moscow...Where are you staying?
Michelle
ps pictures pictures!!

Laura said...

You painted an awesome picture of the day's events....but can't wait to actually see the pics!

CONGRATS!!

Anonymous said...

I'm so excited for you guys! The goose bumps and tears when I read your blog are incredible! Thanks for sharing such a special time with us all. Can't wait for pics-- Courtney